An AI mediator that helps couples slow down, feel heard, and find a way through — in real time, on separate phones.
Free during early access · iOS only · No spam, ever
"Therapy is for Tuesday at 3pm.
Middl is for 11pm on a Wednesday
when you can't find the words."
Open Middl, select your partner, choose what the conversation is about. They receive a notification and tap to join.
Both phones connect to Aria simultaneously. She hears both of you — not one at a time. She witnesses before she mediates.
Aria summarizes what she noticed, reflects agreements, and invites each of you to make one concrete commitment forward.
Middl is built around one belief: the best version of you is already in there. Aria just helps you find it.
The only AI that sits in the middle of both of you — in real time, on separate phones. Aria witnesses before she mediates. She reflects before she advises. She never takes sides.
My Relationship. Family. Friends. Work. Each Space holds its own sessions, its own Aria context, its own insights. Your work stress never bleeds into your relationship.
Process privately before the conversation. Aria remembers your patterns in each Space — and helps you show up with more clarity than you came in with.
Can't find the right words? Tell Aria what you're trying to say — she gives you three different ways to say it. Gentle. Direct. Honest. Choose the version that actually sounds like you, and go say it.
Aria turns agreements into commitments. Each partner independently commits to one concrete thing. She checks in when the time comes. Accountability without pressure.
After every session and reflection, Aria builds a picture of how you communicate. Not a score. Not a diagnosis. A mirror — in her words, about what she actually noticed.
What keeps coming up across your sessions — money, communication, attention, trust. Aria tracks the patterns without being asked.
Repair instinct. Self-awareness. Consistency. Follow-through. Six markers that build over time — each with a sentence from Aria about what she sees in you.
Growing. Stable. Needs attention. A live read on each connection — calculated from session frequency, resolution rate, and how often you actually follow through.
Insights appear after a few sessions. They get sharper the more you use Middl.
Middl handles the most vulnerable conversations in your life. We built the security architecture to match that responsibility.
Every database table uses Row Level Security — your partner cannot read your private Reflect sessions, your Open Journal, or your personal insights. Ever.
Session transcripts are automatically deleted after 90 days. You can also delete individual transcripts or entire sessions at any time from within the app.
Open Journal is fully incognito. Nothing is written to any database. When you leave, everything disappears permanently. Aria starts completely fresh every time.
The API keys that power Aria exist only on our servers, never in the app. Every AI call is authenticated and rate-limited. No one can make calls on your behalf.
One tap from within the app and your profile, sessions, transcripts, reflect conversations, and commitments are permanently erased. No waiting. No friction.
No ads. No data brokers. No third-party marketing. We share your data only with the infrastructure providers required to run the service.
“The conversations you have in Middl are among the most personal things you will ever say out loud. We built this knowing that — and we built the security to match.”
Every live session has a four-level safety escape valve. If things get too intense — for any reason — you can slow it down, step back, or step away safely. Aria handles the rest.
Aria doesn't just listen — she challenges you, remembers you, and stays steady when you can't. Present at 2am. Present mid-argument. Present when therapy isn't an option.
Aria is not a therapist.
She's something new.
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